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Born in the
U.S.A
A New American Islam Proves Devotion
and Women's Liberation Do Mix
By Miriam Udel Lambert
This article originally appeared in The
American Prospect and is republished here with their kind permission.
Ilham Hameedduddin, in a loose
robe and head scarf, is often mistaken for a foreigner. Although her mother is
Indian and her father Arab Indian, Hameedduddin was raised in the United States,
attended public schools, and is working toward a BA at Middlesex College in New
Jersey. Nevertheless, she says, "Neighbors are surprised I can speak
English without an accent. They assume I'm fresh off the boat and I just haven't
assimilated yet."
Actually, Hameedduddin doesn't
plan to assimilate, at least not as far as her religion is concerned. As a proud
American and devout Muslim, she is part of a new, "indigenous"
American Muslim generation. Until now, this country's Muslim community has
included several subgroups: immigrants from Arab countries and the Indian
subcontinent, along with American converts of European or African-American
descent. Since immigration restrictions were eased in the late 1960s, many
Middle Eastern and South Asian Muslims have come to the States, building a
network of mosques and Islamic schools in major metropolitan centers such as
Philadelphia and Los Angeles, as well as enclaves in smaller cities like
Dearborn, Michigan, and Syracuse, New York, and in smaller towns throughout the
country. These developments dovetailed with the growth of the Black Muslim
movement, an African-American nationalist religious group founded in Detroit in
1930. (Today a splinter group called Nation of Islam and led by Louis Farrakhan
remains distinct, but the majority of African-American Muslims belong to
mainstream Islam.)
Now, according to Georgetown
Islamic scholar Yvonne Haddad, the children of these disparate immigrants and
converts are in college and graduate school. They are intermarrying with one
another, engaging each other socially and religiously, and generally fusing
their ranks into a single Islamic community. By virtue of the American context
in which this community is emerging -- with its emphasis on pluralism and
acceptance of difference -- it offers women a more public role as workers,
activists, and decision makers than most other Islamic societies. Therefore, a
new kind of American Islam is being created in which women can be at once devout
and publicly active.
The first indication of the
openness of American Islam is the way Muslims from different points on the
religious and cultural spectrum describe women's religious and communal
activities. No matter how religiously liberal or conservative, and regardless of
background, all emphasize that Muslim women are engaging in as vast an array of
careers and causes as other American women. According to Cynthia Sulaiman, who
converted at age 28 after 10 years of deliberation and who now runs the Muslim
Homeschooling Resources Network out of her home, "We run just like any
other religious community. We have mothers who are strictly stay-at-home and
very conservative, women who are doctors and scientists, and women who publish
magazines for other women. It all depends on what individual women feel they can
contribute." She points out that while her community includes many female
teachers and health care workers, such professions have been traditional fields
for women generally.
There are several factors
contributing to this new notion of a devout, but liberated, Muslim woman. First,
as Muslims of many ethnicities learn to coexist, they have to learn to be
open-minded about each other. And people have applied that new tolerance to
women as well. Although mosques are sometimes segregated de facto by their
location in certain neighborhoods or on college campuses, many serve ethnically,
racially, and socioeconomically mixed communities. This is especially true of
smaller communities, as Sakina Abdul-Malik points out. While she grew up in
Philadelphia in a predominantly African-American mosque, her mosque in Syracuse
includes Yemeni, Palestinian, and Malaysian families along with American
converts.
In marriage, too, there is much
mixing among different Muslims in the United States. Many American-born women
are married to Pakistani and Bangladeshi men. According to Haddad, there is a
growing rate of intermarriage between Arabs and Pakistanis and between Pakistani
men and Bangladeshi women. Meanwhile, all of these families are living in
America, rearing children who absorb at least some of the American ethos. The
movement toward inter-Muslim integration in this country, with its prospects for
a more public role for women, seems inexorable. "There is a fear of the
unknown on the part of parents who believe the more you have someone like you,
the happier the marriage is," concedes Haddad. "They absolutely want
their children to marry someone from the same country and social class, but the
kids aren't paying attention."
A second indicator that American
Islam offers new options to women is that young women have taken on a very
visible, vocal role as political activists -- something that is less common in
many Muslim countries. During this election year in Hameedduddin's community,
teenage girls manned a booth outside her local mosque during Friday prayers,
urging congregation members to register to vote. During the recent
Israeli-Palestinian tensions, women and girls handed out brochures, helped
organize protests, and served as spokespeople to the media and non-Muslims.
Hameedduddin attributes this activism to the younger generation's greater
facility with the English language. Some women choose lesser public engagement,
but even they are careful to note that their choice is individual and shouldn't
be binding for all Muslim women.
Expressing an attitude typical of
many American Muslims, Hameedduddin is deeply respectful of her co-religionists
abroad. "In Islamic countries," she points out, "women are much
more active among themselves. The 'behind-the-scenes' roles are not lesser
roles. Lately, there have been a lot of demonstrations, with women doing a lot
of work behind the scenes." If American Muslim women play a more visible
role, she argues, it is in the service of achieving their goals effectively:
"It's true that women and especially the American youth are much more
aggressive in their approach. We've learned new ways to make our voices heard,
be active in the community, and draw positive attention to our community.
American Muslim women are more assertive than Arab ones because that is simply
how American society is set up."
As women become more vocal -- more
American -- they are not straying from their religion, however. Instead, women
have brought American activism to their religion. Both scholars and
practitioners of the religion are impressed with the enthusiasm that converts
often exhibit upon joining the community. Haddad, who has studied American
Muslims extensively, notes that female converts take a lot of initiative in
establishing religious schools because they are eager for their children to
receive a proper Islamic education. Furthermore, they tend to serve as liaisons
with non-Muslims because, "they feel themselves to be ambassadors to the
larger American society."
Furthermore, novices may insert
vigor into their religious communities. Hameedduddin contrasts those who are
born into Islam and "take it for granted" with a young woman who
converted a year and a half ago and is very good at organizing events in the
mosque. "I think she has brought energy from outside the religion,"
Hameedduddin notes. "People like her are more grateful they found
[Islam]."
Sulaiman sees the high-profile
contributions of converts as a function of practical know-how in dealing with
American institutions and systems rather than as a manifestation of religious
passion. Most of the organizing work in her community in eastern Massachusetts
is done by converts like herself, says Sulaiman, but this is only natural.
"I'm in my native country," she points out, "and I don't expect
immigrants to know what to do in my country. It would be really presumptuous to
walk into a country and say, 'Okay, you have to do this and this.'" Abdul-Malik,
an African-American woman who grew up Muslim in Philadelphia, echoes her close
friend Sulaiman: "Women from overseas are often homebound, into doing
things just with their families. Those born on this coast are used to doing
things in a community."
There are plenty of converts to do
that organizing. Muslim Web sites teem with first-person accounts of "Why I
Became Muslim." Many of the authors are female, as women are among the
fastest-growing segments of the Muslim community, according to Ibrahim Hooper of
the Council for American-Islamic Relations. Therefore, it is women who are
helping speed the path to the new American type of Islam.
Though American Muslim women are
comfortable with their roles, many non-Muslim women are mystified by Islam's
appeal. They know that Islam permits polygamy (a controversial practice, though)
and, as it is interpreted in several countries, grossly limits women's
educational and career choices as well as their freedom of movement and dress.
However, these restrictions are
only part of the picture, and a secondary part for the Western women who are
choosing the religion. In her cogent analysis, Women and Gender in Islam,
Egyptian-born scholar Laila Ahmed argues that in matters concerning women there
is a dichotomy between the practice of Islam as codified by the legal tradition
and the egalitarian vision portrayed by the Qur'an. She writes, "The
unmistakable presence of an ethical egalitarianism explains why Muslim women
frequently insist, often inexplicably to non-Muslims, that Islam is not sexist.
They hear and read in its sacred text, justly and legitimately, a different
message from that heard by the makers and enforcers of orthodox, androcentric
Islam." When interpreted directly from the text -- rather than when
observed in its most restrictive application -- Islam may be understood as
egalitarian.
While many Western women consider
certain Muslim practices oppressive, others interpret them liberating. Some
women, for example, argue that embracing Muslim norms of modesty releases them
from the sexual current underlying many everyday interactions. "Islam
offers an alternative to a sexually charged and sexually exploitative
society," Hooper asserts. "Islam allows women to disengage from an
environment that values them only for their sexuality and physical appearance
and seeks to eliminate sexuality from non-sexual relationships. If a woman goes
to the butcher shop, she doesn't need to look pretty to get meat."
As Muslims negotiate their
relationship with American culture -- and with Muslims of other ethnicities in
the United States -- a window has opened for a renegotiated role for women.
Taking advantage of that opportunity, women may seek the most egalitarian
interpretation of the Qur'an while preserving the traditions they find
meaningful. This new role for women may strengthen both women's options and
American Islam itself.
Miriam Udel Lambert
This article originally appeared
in The American Prospect
and is republished here with their kind permission.
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