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Demanding
Professionalism in our Masjid
Yahiya Emerick compares American
mosques to the well organized way churches and synagogues are run and finds them
wanting.
Where do you go if your son is
rebelling? What do you do when your daughter wants to marry someone against your
wishes? Your uncle is feeling depressed lately. Who can help him recover? Your
spouse is too materialistic and is neglecting the spiritual life of your family?
Who can help? If you have ever been faced with issues similar to these, then you
have probably tried to get help in the one place where you would expect to get
it: the Masjid. Perhaps you called or paid a visit to the Masjid office in the
hopes of finding a sympathetic ear, or maybe you met with the Imam or director
to discuss what's ailing your life.
But if your experience is like
most people in most places, you wound up having to look elsewhere for
assistance. You just couldn't find the support you needed in your local house of
worship. Maybe no one answered the phone; maybe your calls were never returned
or, if you did manage to get a personal meeting, perhaps the Imam or director
spoke little English or merely used the opportunity to lecture you on fiqh
issues. Hardly a solution to real life problems!
If we say the Masjid is the focal
point of the community and open its doors five times a day for prayer, shouldn't
the Masjid be open for other needs the believers have as well? But what I've
seen all too often is that those who build and operate the Masajid have little
expertise in organizing a life-giving institution. Just because someone can make
a million dollars living off medical insurance billings doesn't mean he can run
a spiritual and communal project!
What I'm telling you is not the
disgruntled ramblings of an emotional person. I'm quite happy being Muslim no
matter what the strengths or weaknesses of my community are. After having
visited countless Masajid across the country, I wish merely to call your
attention to a most pressing issue; that of the need for professionalism in the
Masajid.
I don't know how many of you are
converts to Islam, but if you are reading this, do you remember what going to
church or the synagogue was like in earlier years? Put aside for a moment the
faulty theology and mistaken notions that were taught in those places. Remember
what the structure was like. If you needed counseling, the minister or rabbi was
well qualified and available. If you had children there were fun and interesting
youth activities throughout the week. If you were poor you may have received
help. If you merely needed a good book on your religion, there was a wonderful,
staffed library on premises. Do you see where I'm going?
Nearly every single Masjid built
and operated in North America has been built, funded and operated by immigrant
Muslims. (With the exception of a large number of African American Masajid.)
After extensive interviews with immigrant Muslims, it seems the perception of
the Masjid "back home" is of a place to make salah, do janazah, 'Eid
celebrations, etc... Family and personal matters are handled through other
channels: relatives, friends, youth clubs, etc... After all, everyone's a Muslim
so the Masjid is just a small feature in the spiritual and social life of the
community.
Enter the new world: the immigrant
builds a Masjid with the good intention of having a place for the community to
gather and make Salah and do Eid, etc... But when members of the community have
needs that only a Muslim would know how to deal with, bingo! There are no Muslim
relatives in great abundance. The few Muslim friends one may have are all busy
making money and there are no Muslim youth clubs or community activities beyond
dinners once a month or fundraising events. So where does the community member
go? He or she seeks out non-Muslim help at best or leaves the problem unsolved
at worst. The Masjid has no place in their life.
Even if the Masjid has a few
pitiful programs to enhance the life of its members, more often than not,
they're staffed only sporadically by people who just came from a village back
home. They are not professional in their manner according to Western standards-
they may not even show up on time to anything- and they are not equipped to deal
with the issues confronting the Muslim minority experience. I'm not saying all
volunteers in the Masajid are similar to this description. Don't get me wrong.
But in all my time as a frequenter of Masajid, I've only met about nine or ten
truly competent people.
Contrast the above scenario with
the average church or synagogue. The institution is built to serve as a
community center right from the start. Youth programs are a priority and are
well-planned and fun. Women are represented on the board and on all committees.
Volunteers are chosen for their trustworthiness and reliability. They are made
to feel that their job means something and they are well-coordinated and
friendly. The minister or rabbi speaks English fluently, even if they are an
immigrant, and knows Greek, Hebrew or Latin on the side. In order to be the
leader of the community, the minister or rabbi had to undergo extensive training
which included, besides the religious subjects, counseling, administration,
management, music and singing, public speaking, research, etc.... culminating in
the award of a D.D. (Doctorate of Divinity).
I'm sorry, but the little
certificates from madrasahs (schools) all over the third world do not prepare an
Imam for the task of leading the Muslim community in North America. Before you
take offense at this statement, consider this: what is your definition of an
Imam? Islamically, the Imam is supposed to have some authority over the
community. He is to be elected by the Muslims and given respect and listened to.
But in every Muslim community I've been in, the Imam has no authority, little
respect and merely leads the prayers and recites some du'as. At the most he may
teach some classes here and there on Qirah or Aqeedah. Even if he is a hafiz the
situation is still pretty much the same.
If this is your definition of what
an Imam means, then you need to remember all the complaints we have about why
the Muslim world has declined in the last five hundred years. Islam was
relegated to the Masjid. Imams were prayer leaders and little more. Islam had
little hold over a person's personal or social life. This is how Islam is viewed
in Muslim countries; this is one reason why the immigrant Muslims had to leave
their countries to begin with. Their homelands are, by and large, screwed up.
So why do we want to set up our
Masajid here on the same model that caused our destruction over there? I can't
figure it out. Ministers and Rabbis are considered authority figures in their
respective communities and generally have the allegiance of most members. Our
Imams are usually under-educated and have no authority with little backing from
anyone. Some wealthy patron, pretending he knows how to be a Masjid director, is
almost always the real power in the Baitullah. And it's real hard to tell such a
director that his local Muslim community is drifting away from the faith when he
lives in a mansion and drives a Mercedes. He'll say to himself, "I made a
fortune, therefore, I know what's best for the local Muslim community."
Meanwhile, all around him, the
youth are becoming kuffar, the women are forgetting Islam, the elderly are being
abandoned in homes, the people who want to convert are disillusioned and the men
are 'Eid Muslims only, if that. Everyone turns to the non-Muslim society for
support, help, entertainment, money and even spiritual meaning. Until and unless
we inject professionalism in our Masajid, then our community will continue to
shrink even though pundits cry about there being six million of us.
We need trained staff, even if you
have to pay them. We need Imams with professional training in many subjects
related to human relations and we need a process of inclusion that would make
women, the youth and the luke-warm Muslims feel a part of the over-all life of
our Masjid. In short, the Masjid is not just a place of prayer that we can build
to heal our guilty feelings of doing haram business dealings- it's a place for
Muslims and their lives. By its very nature and what it must mean for the
community, it must be run professionally, and not like a club.
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