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The Relation
of the Sexes
1925 lecture on the "pitiful
condition of Muslim womanhood" by English convert to Islam and Quran
translator Mohammad Marmaduke Pickthall.
Today I have to speak to you about a
delicate subject -- the Islamic position of women -- a subject which is
delicate, and to me painful, only because at every turn while examining it I am
reminded that I am in a country [India] where, among the Muslims, a woman is
emphatically not in her Islamic position, and where men are generally
indifferent to the wrongs done to her. The state to which the great majority of
Muslim women in India are reduced today is a libel on Islam, a crime for which
the Muslim community as a whole will have to suffer in increasing social
degradation, in the weak and the sickly, in increasing child mortality, so long
as that crime is perpetuated. An unconscious crime on the part of the majority,
I know, begun in ignorance, through pursuit of an un-Islamic tradition of false
pride. But ignorance of the law is no excuse for anybody to escape its penalties
-- least of all, in the case of the operation of natural laws can the mere plea
of ignorance exempt a man from undergoing the natural consequences of
transgression. The laws of the Shari'ah [Islamic Law] are natural laws, and the
consequences of transgressing them are unavoidable, not only for Muslims,
but for everyone. The fool who does not know that fire will burn him, is burnt
by fire just like anybody else. And the excuse of ignorance, in the case of
Muslims and the Shari'ah, is worse than the offence. Since they, of all mankind,
should have that special knowledge which it is their mission to convey to all
mankind.
Please do not, upon hearing me thus inveigh
against the present pitiful condition of Muslim womanhood in India, think that I
am judging it by any foreign standard for wishing to recommend foreign ways. I
am judging it only by the Shari'ah and I wish to recommend only the way of the
Shari'ah; and I judge the Western status of woman, as I judge her Eastern
status, solely by the Shari'ah as I, following the most learned and enlightened
Muslims of all ages, understand it.
"Thus have We set you as a middle nation
that ye may bear witness against mankind and that the Messenger may bear
witness against you." [Qur'an 2:143]
Surely the Messenger of Allah (may God bless and
keep him!) bears witness against you today in this matter of the status and the
rights of woman. Only recall his words: "Education is a sacred duty for
every Muslim and every Muslimah." [Muslimah = Muslim female]
I know that an influential group of men among
you have decided in their mind that knowledge [ilm] must be taken here in the
restricted "theological" sense as meaning only knowledge of a
"religious" nature. The Holy Prophet and the Holy Qur'an never made a
distinction between the religious and secular. For the true Muslim, the whole of
life is religious and the whole of knowledge is religious. So according to the
proper teaching of Islam, the man with the widest knowledge and experience of
life is the man best qualified to expound religious truths to resolve the
problems which arise among Muslims in connection with the practice of religion.
I deny the right of men with limited knowledge and outlook to exclusive
interpretation. I deny their conclusions and I also deny their premises. I say
that their claim to exclusive interpretation among them to their priestly
intervention between the Muslims and the Messenger [the Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h.]
whom Allah sent to them - a thing denounced in the Qur'an repeatedly as against
religion and destructive to all true religion in the past. But I am willing to
accept their restriction for the moment. Let us agree for the sake of argument
that [ilm] means only what such people think it means, the knowledge which such
men possess. Is every Muslimah [Muslim woman] in India encouraged or even
allowed to seek such knowledge? Does every Muslim woman in India receive that
sort of education? Does every Muslimah in India know even the Fateha
or even the Kalima? Can every Muslimah in India say her
prayers? How many Muslimahs in India know the passages of the Qur'an and the
sayings of the Prophet which ought to govern the progressive evolution of
woman's true position in the Muslim brotherhood? Let them all be given that
education, in God's name! I ask no more as a beginning. All the rest will follow
naturally.
Our Prophet (may God bless and keep him!) said,
"Women are the twin halves of men." "The rights of women are
sacred. See that women are maintained in the rights granted to them." Do
Muslim women in India even know what their rights are? Equality with men before
the law is theirs according to the Shari'ah. Woman have the right to own their
own property, have the right to claim a divorce from their husbands under
certain circumstances. How many Muslim women in India know that? And who is
seeing that they are maintained in the rights granted to them by the Sacred Law?
In India today, women have no legal protector or defender. Where is that woman
Judge, who, according to our great Imam
Abu Hanifa , ought to be in every city to deal particularly with cases
touching women's rights? Where is the male Judge to whom they have free right
and access to appeal? The Qadi used to be the guardian and defender of their
rights. His position in India today is almost as pitifully below his true
Islamic position as that of the woman herself; and one sees little reason why it
should be.
Women have equal rights with men before the
Shari'ah, and the Qur'an proclaims that they are equal with men in the sight of
God. In the Holy Qur'an, God says:
"I suffer not the work of any one among
you, whether male or female, to be lost. One is from the other." [Qur'an
3:195]
The heathen Arabs thought women were a separate
and inferior race. The Qur'an reminds them that they are all one race, one
proceeding from the other, the man from the woman and woman from the man.
There is no text in the Qur'an, no saying of
our Prophet, which can possibly be held to justify the practice of depriving
women of the natural benefits which Allah has decreed for all mankind (i.e.
sunshine and fresh air and healthy movement). And there is no text in the Qur'an,
or saying of our Prophet which justifies her life-long imprisonment in her home.
This imprisonment, in turn, has lead to death by consumption or anaemia to
thousands of women, and God knows how many babies, every year in this country!
Decency and modesty is enjoined by the Qur'an, the circle of a woman's intimate
relations is prescribed by the Qur'an. The true Islamic tradition enjoins the
veiling of the hair and neck, and modest conduct - that is all.
The veiling of the face by women was not
originally an Islamic custom. It was prevalent in many cities of the East before
the coming of Islam, but not in the cities of Arabia. The purdah system, as it
now exists in India, was quite undreamt of by the Muslims in the early
centuries, who had adopted the face-veil and some other fashions for their women
when they entered the cities of Syria, Mesopotamia, Persia and Egypt. It was
once a concession to the prevailing custom and was a protection to their women
from misunderstanding by peoples accustomed to associate unveiled faces with
loose character. Later on it was adopted even in the cities of Arabia as a mark
of [tamaddun] a word generally translated as 'civilization', but which in Arabic
still retains a stronger flavour of its root meaning 'townsmanship' that is
carried by the English word. It has never been a universal custom for Muslim
women, the great majority of whom have never used it, since the majority of the
Muslim women in the world are peasants who work with their husbands and brothers
in the fields. For them the face-veil would be an absurd encumbrance. The
head-veil, on the other hand, is universal.
The Egyptian, Syrian, Turkish or Arabian
peasant woman veiled her face only when she had to go in to town, and then it
was often only a half-veil that she wore. On the other hand, when the town
ladies went to their country houses, they discarded the face-veil, and with it
nearly all the ceremonies which enclosed their life in towns. In no other
country that I know of, besides India, do the customs which were adopted by the
wealthiest townspeople for the safety and distinction of their women at a
certain period (i.e., adopted by people having spacious palaces and private
gardens) derive from the practice of poor people (who had only small rooms in
which to confine women). This is sheer cruelty. Not everywhere did wealthy adopt
those customs. Umarah tells us that among the Arabs of Al-Yaman, in the fifth
Islamic century, the great independent chiefs made it a point of pride and
honour never to veil the faces of the ladies of their families, because they
held themselves too high and powerful for common folk to dare to look upon their
women with desiring eyes. It was only the dynasty which ruled in Zabid, and
represented the Khilafat of Bani'l-Abbas in Yaman which observed the haram
system with some strictness, no doubt in imitation of the Persianised court of
Baghdad.
Thus the Purdah system is neither of Islamic
nor Arabian origin. It is of Zoroastrian Persian, and Christian Byzantine
origin. It has nothing to do with the religion of Islam, and, for practical
reasons, it has never been adopted by the great majority of Muslim women. So
long as it was applied only to the women of great houses, who had plenty of
space for exercise within their palaces and had varied interests in life. So
long as it did not involve cruelty and did no harm to women, it could be
regarded as unobjectionable from the standpoint as a custom of a period. But the
moment it involved cruelty to women and did harm to them, it became manifestly
objectionable, from the point of view of the Shari'ah, which enjoins kindness
and fair treatment towards women, and aims at the improvement of their status.
It was never applicable to every class of society and when applied to every
class, as now in India, it is a positive evil, which the Sacred Law can never
sanction.
The general condition of Muslim women in
Turkey, Syria, Egypt and Arabia has always been emancipated as compared with
their condition now in India. For instance, the town ladies of the middle class,
wearing their veils, were free to go about, doing their shopping and visiting
other ladies. Indeed the world of women behind the veil was as free and full of
interest as that of men, only it was separate from that of them, and largely
independent of that of men. Women, duly veiled, were quite safe in the streets.
Any insult offered to one of them was sufficient to rouse the whole Muslim
population to avenge it. The women of the moderately well-to-do could come and
go as they pleased and had no lack of social intercourse. The degree of freedom
they enjoyed in diverse countries was regulated by racial temperament and local
traditions rather than Islamic Law, which merely guarantees to women certain
rights - and there is no law in the world so fair to women - and lays down the
principle that they are always to be treated kindly and their rights held
sacred. For instance, there was a difference between the Arabs and the Turks in
this respect, the Turks having adopted more of the Byzantine customs. But all
that I have said applies to both. In neither of those races would the women have
put up with the conditions in which the majority of Indian Muslim women live
today; and in neither of those races would the men have tolerated that condition
for their women.
But even the condition of the Turkish woman of
the past has been found to have become a cruelty in modern times. The reason for
this is so curious that I must give it. When the Turks first came to Anatolia
and Rumelia, they were a sallow complexioned race from Central Asia, with
slanting eyes and thin black beards, as portraits of the early Sultans and their
generals show. That type is found today among the peasantry around Adana, [a
city in southern Turkey] but hardly anywhere else. Through centuries of
intermarriage with the fair Circassians, Georgians, Syrians, Bulgars, Serbs,
Albanians and other blonde races of Asia and Europe, the Turks have now become
as fair as English people. The change was marked by a terrible increase in the
mortality of Turkish women, particularly by an increase in the numbers of the
yearly victims to consumption. So long as the Turkish woman was of a dark
complexion, the languid, easy going life of the traditional Khanum Efendi did
not harm her. But after she became of fair complexion, she suffered visibly from
the confinement - much less than that imposed on Indian Muslim ladies, but still
measure of confinement - of that life. The Turkish doctors then discovered that
blondes were generally weaker constitutionally than brunettes, and required a
great deal more fresh air and physical exercise. After the full significance of
that discovery dawned upon the rulers of Turkey, they then became advocates of
feminine emancipation and, with the ruthless logic of their race, abolished the
face-veil and other unhealthy restrictions as soon as they could.
Turkish women in the towns now dress as they
have always dressed in the country, wearing the close fitting bash urtu
(head-veil) with a longer looser head veil over it. And a long loose mantle
covering her form from head to toe -- a dress much less coquettish, though more
healthy, than the former black charshaf and face veil. She is encouraged to take
exercise and to play games in the open air, for which special women's clubs have
been started. She is educated equally to men, though separately from them. She
is allowed to do things which would have scandalized her great-grandmother. Yet
it is all within the Shari'ah, since the changed conditions made this
enlargement of the sphere of free activity absolutely necessary for women's
health and happiness in these days. The changes were not revolutionary for the
Turkish ladies since they had always the example of the Turkish country folk
before them to prevent them from confusing the town dress and town restrictions
with the Sacred Law of Islam. The Turkish peasantry are very good Muslims
indeed. Nowhere does one see Islamic rules of decency more beautifully observed
than in the Turkish villages of Anatolia. Yet the women in those villages and in
Egyptian villages, and in Syrian villages and in Circassian villages and in
Arabian villages and among the Bedawi and other wandering tribes enjoy a freedom
which would stupefy an Indian Maulvi.
It is the great misfortune of the Indian
Muslims that they have no peasantry; that they came into this land as
conquerors, with ambitions and ideas befitting noblemen and rulers in
Afghanistan and Turkistan and Persia in those days, so that now every Indian
Muslim thinks it is necessary for his Izzat [honour/status] to treat his women
in, perhaps, a wretched hut as the original Beg or Khan Sahib [people of a
higher and noble social status] treated the women of his household, or as the
Mughal Emperor treated the women of his palace in the vast Zenana quarters of
the fort at Agra. It is the lack of a peasantry which had made them confuse the
Purdah system of the wealthy townsfolk in the past with the Sacred Law of Islam.
If there had been a Muslim peasantry in India, like the Muslim peasantry of
Arabia, Egypt, Syria or Anatolia as the basis of the nation, the Indian Muslims
could never have fallen into the error of supposing that the Purdah system
should be practised by the poor who dwell in hovels, and the rich would never
have applied both to town and country life. A peasantry has always common sense.
It has no absurd pretensions, no false standards. The peasant judges a woman as
he judges a man, by skill in work and skill in management. I have seen a woman
govern an Egyptian village by sheer weight of practical good sense and
character. The men obeyed her orders and were proud of her. That is no isolated
instance. Yet the Egyptian fellahin [peasants] are ardent Muslims, and observe
Islamic regulations pretty strictly.
The laws of Islam, with regard to the position
of women as intended for the benefit of women, for their health and happiness
and the improvement of their material and social position; and these laws are
not static, they are DYNAMIC. They contemplate reasonable change as
circumstances and conditions change. They can never sanction any custom that
does injury or wrong to women. The Purdah system is not a part of the Islamic
law. It is a custom of the court introduced after the Khilafat had degenerated
from the true Islamic standard and, under Persian and Byzantine influences, had
become mere Oriental despotism. It comes from the source of weakness to Islam
not from the source of strength. The source of strength and of revival to Islam
has always been the peasant's farm, the blacksmith's forge, the shepherd's hut,
the nomad herdsman's tent. It was thence that fresh brains came to the schools,
fresh blood to the throne, fresh vigour to the camp, not from the sort of people
who enjoyed the purdah system. Far better let the traces of a worn-out grandeur
go. And if the Muslims in India happen to be poor and forced to work for a
living, let them no longer feel ashamed to earn it in the way that Islam
considers honourable -- by cultivation of the land. No country can ever in truth
be called a Muslim country of which the peasantry is non-Muslim. And Muslims
settled anywhere without a peasantry are like a flower without a root -- they
cannot draw fresh vigour from the soil.
I do not ask for any violent or sudden change.
Educate women in obedience to our Prophet's plain command, and, in the
conditions of the present day, you will see this un-Islamic purdah system
vanquished naturally. It has nothing whatever to do with Islamic rules of
modesty and decency for men and women. These will remain unshaken -- nay, they
will be greatly strengthened -- if the education which you give to both men and
women be a sound Muslim education.
The Shari'ah has nothing but benevolence for
women -- it favours their instruction and development. But it does not wish nor
expect them to assimilate themselves to men. Dr. Harry Campbell, lecturing
before the institute of Hygiene in London recently said, "Women have
smaller lungs and fewer blood cells than men. In women, the vital fire does not
burn so quickly. It is thus obvious that women are not adapted like men for a
strenuous muscular life. Mentally, men and women differ in the realm of emotions
rather than of intellect. Intellectually men and women stand somewhat upon the
same footing. While genius is more common in the male sex, so also is
idiocy." There is therefore spiritual and intellectual equality, and
physical differences, precisely as the Islamic law recognizes. There is nothing
in the Shari'ah to give ground for the false idea concerning women's position in
Islam which had prevailed long ago and still prevails in Christendom. It is the
spectacle of such a falling away from true Islamic standards like this, in
India, which has led non-Muslims to declare that Muslims treat their women-folk
like cattle, that Muslims hold that women have no souls.
It is true that the Western view of women and
the problem of the sexes, differs radically from the Muslim view in some
respects, but not in the ways that Europeans usually imagine it to differ, nor
in the way in which the conduct of too many Muslims makes it seem to the
superficial observer to differ. By acting against the teaching of the Shari'ah
through ignorance - no Muslim worthy of the name would knowingly transgress the
Sacred Law - we misrepresent Islam before the world; our witness against mankind
becomes a false witness; and the damage to the faith is thus incalculable. Most
Muslims in India seem to be utterly unaware that Islam has furnished them with
high ideals and a system (with regards to relations of the sexes - i.e., ideals
and a system that is well able to hold their own in argument as against the
ideals and system, or lack of system) of the most modern and advanced of Western
peoples. They [Muslim Indians] cling to wretched un-Islamic customs, which are
both irrational an inhuman, as if Islam were left without an argument in face of
the emancipation of the West. Islamic marriage is not a sacrament involving
bondage of the woman to the man, but a civil contract between equals capable of
being terminated at the will of either party, though more readily at the man's
will for reasons which were very cogent at the time when it was instituted and
still have weight today.
In India, many Muslims seem to have adopted
Hindu ideals of the status of women in marriage, of widows remarrying and of
inheritance, if all I hear is true. Again, I would impress on you the fact that
the injunctions of the Sacred Law cannot be neglected with impunity by anyone;
and also that they are not static, but dynamic. They point the way and give the
impulse in the right direction. They impose the limits which must be observed.
They trace the path which must be followed, but the details at a given period
must be evolved upon those lines, to suit the needs and circumstances of that
period. Islam, the religion of human progress never aims at stagnation or
retrogression or oppression or enslavement of the mind or body, but always at
advance, at even justice, at emancipation.
It has been said that the Islamic view of woman
is a man's view, while the Christian view of women is a woman's view. One might
add that, seeing that Christendom was always ruled by men, the Christian view
has never been translated into terms of fact, but has merely caused confusion of
ideas in theory and many inconsistencies in practice. Devotees of the
sentimental ideal of divine womanhood are apt to underestimate the human value
of the Muslim standpoint, and to talk as if Islam had lowered the social and
moral position of Eastern women, and caused their personal degradation, thus
omitting altogether and taking into account the fact that a minority of
Christian women are degraded to a depth which every good Mohammedan would
appraise with horror while a large number are debarred from all fulfilment of
their natural functions, which the Muslim regards as a great wrong.
The historical truth is that the Prophet of
Islam is the greatest feminist the world has ever known. From the lowest
degradation, he uplifted women to a position beyond which they can only go in
theory. The Arabs of his day held woman in supreme contempt, ill-treated and
defrauded them habitually, and even hated them. For we read in the Holy Qur'an:
"Ye who believe! It is not allowed you to
be heirs of women against their will, not to hinder them from marrying, that
you may take from them a part of that which you have given them, unless they
have been guilty of evident lewdness. But deal kindly with them, for if ye
hate them it may happen that ye have a thing wherein Allah hath placed much
good." [Qur'an 4:19]
The pagan Arabs regarded the birth of girl babies
as the very opposite of a blessing, and had the custom to bury alive such of
them as they esteemed superfluous. The Qur'an peremptorily forbids that
practice, along with others hardly less unjust and cruel. It assigns to women a
defined and honoured status and commands mankind to treat them with respect and
kindness.
The Prophet said:
"Women are twin halves of men."
"When a woman observes the five times of
prayer, and fasts the months of Ramadan, and is chaste, and is not disobedient
to her husband, then tell her to enter Paradise by whichever gate she
likes."
"Paradise lies at the feet of the
mother."
"The rights of women are sacred. See that
women are maintained in the rights granted to them."
"Whoever does good to girls (children)
will be saved from hell."
"Whoever looks after two girls till they
come of age will be in the next world along with me, like my two fingers close
to each other."
"A thing which is lawful, but disliked by
Allah, is divorce."
"Shall I not point out to you the best of
virtues? It is to treat tenderly your daughter when she is returned to you,
having been divorced by her husband."
"Whoever has a daughter and does not bury
her alive, or scold her, or show partiality to his other children, Allah will
bring him to Paradise."
The whole personal teaching of the Prophet is
opposed to cruelty, especially towards women. He said: "The best of you is
he who is best to his wife." Innumerable are the instances of his clemency
in his recorded life. He forgave the woman who prepared a poisoned meal for him,
from which one of his companions died, and he himself derived the painful, oft
recurring illness which eventually lead to his death. The Qur'an also on a
hundred pages declares forgiveness and mercy to be better than punishment,
whenever practicable. That is to say, whenever such forgiveness would not
constitute a crime against humanity in the political sphere, or whenever, in the
case of private individuals, the man or woman is capable of real forgiveness,
banishing all malice, then is the is best course, otherwise the evil would recur
in aggravated form.
The Muslim view of women has been so
misrepresented in the West that it is still a prevalent idea in Europe and
American that Muslims think that women have no souls! In the Holy Qur'an no
difference whatsoever is made between the sexes in relation to Allah; both are
promised the same reward for good, the same punishment of evil conduct.
"Verily the men who surrender (to Allah)
and women who surrender, and men who believe, and women who believe, and men
who obey and women who obey, and men who are sincere and women who are
sincere, and men who endure and women who endure, and men who are humble and
women who are humble, and men who give alms and women who give alms, and men
who fast and women who fast, and men who are modest and women who are modest,
and women who remember (Him), Allah hath prepared for them pardon and a great
reward." [Qur'an 33:35]
It is only in relation to each other that a
difference is made - the difference which actually exists - difference of
function. In a verse which must have stupefied the pagan Arabs, who regarded
women as devoid of human rights, it is stated:
"They (women) have right like those (of
men) against them; though men are a degree above them. Allah is Almighty,
All-Knowing." [Qur'an 2:228]
In Arabia, the lot of poor widows was particularly
hopeless prior to the coming of Islam. The Holy Qur'an sanctions the remarriage
of widows. It legalizes divorce and marriage from another husband, thus
transforming marriage from a state of bondage for the women to a civil contract
between equals, terminable by the will of either party (with certain
restrictions, greater in women's case for natural reasons, intended to make
people reflect seriously before deciding upon separation) and by death. The Holy
Prophet, when he was the sovereign of Arabia, married several windows, in order
to destroy the old contempt for them and to provide for them as ruler of the
State.
This brings me to the old vexing question of
polygamy. All Arabia was polygamous, or rather I should say, all Arabia
recognized no legal or religious limits or restrictions to the treatment of
women by men before the coming of Islam. Islam imposed such limits and
restrictions which transformed society. Fault is found with our religion by most
Western writers because it does not enjoy strict monogamy. Also the very mission
of Muhammad (may God bless and keep him!) has been questioned merely because he
had several wives. I would like to point out that there is no more brighter
example of monogamous marriage in all of history than the twenty-six year happy
union of our Holy Prophet with the lady Khadijah. But that happy union was
exceptional, and one might even claim that a happy marriage is exceptional, and
that if our Prophet had had only that one experience, his usefulness as an
example to mankind would not have been less. However, not only did he furnish an
example of a perfect monogamous marriage, but he also furnished an example of a
perfect polygamous marriage. He provided the perfect model of behaviour to
mankind. Now the vast majority of men in those days were polygamists, and I
really do not know that they have ceased to be so.
People sometimes talk as if polygamy were an
institution of Islam. It is no more an institution of Islam than it is of
Christianity (it was the custom in Christendom for centuries after Christ) but
it is still an existing human weakness to be reckoned with, and in the interests
of men and women (women chiefly), to be regulated. Strict monogamy has never
really been observed in Western lands, but for the sake of the fetish of
monogamy, a countless multitude of women and their children have been sacrificed
and made to suffer cruelly. Islam destroys all fetishes, which always tend to
outcast numbers of God's creatures. In Europe, side by side with woman worship,
we see the degradation and despair of women.
The Islamic system, when completely practised
does away with the dangers of seduction, the horrors of prostitution and the
hard fate which befalls countless women and children in the West, as the
consequence of unavowed polygamy. Islam's basic principle is
that a man is held fully responsible for his behaviour towards every woman, and
for the consequences of his behaviour. If it does away likewise with much of the
romance which has been woven round the facts of sexual intercourse by Western
writers, the romance is an illusion, and we need never mourn the loss of an
illusion.
Take the most widely read modern European
literature, and you will find the object of man's life on earth is depicted as
the love of women (i.e., in the ideal form as the love of one woman, the elect,
whom he discovers after trying more than one). When that one woman is
discovered, the reader is led to suppose that a "union of souls" takes
place between the two. And that is the goal of life. That is not common sense -
it is rubbish. But it is traceably a product of the teaching of the Christian
Church regarding marriage. Woman is an alluring but forbidden creature, by
nature sinful, except when a mystical union, typifying that of Christ and his
Church has happened, thanks to priestly benediction.
The teaching of Islam is completely different.
There is no such thing as union of two human souls, and those who spend their
lives seeking it will go far astray. Sympathy, more or less and loves there may
be. But every human soul is solitary from the cradle to the grave unless and
until it finds its way of approach (wasilah) to Allah. It is free and
independent of every other human soul. It has its full responsibility, must bear
its own burden and find its own "way of approach" through the duties
and amid the cares of life. There is no difference between a woman and a man in
this respect. In marriage, there is no merging of personalities -- each remains
distinct and independent. They have simply entered into an engagement for the
performance of certain duties towards each other, an engagement which can be
hallowed and made permanent by mutual regard and love. If that regard and love
is not forthcoming, the engagement should be terminated. Marriage is not a
sacrament (of mystical value in itself ) nor is it a bondage. It is a civil
contract between one free servant of Allah and another free servant of Allah.
Allah has ordained between them mutual love, has clearly defined their rights
over one another, and has prescribed for their observance certain rules of
honour and of decency. If they cannot feel the love and fear they may transgress
the rules, then the contract should be ended. The woman retains her own complete
personality, her own opinions and initiative, her own property and her and her
own name, in the case of polygamous or in the case of monogamous marriage. And
in the case of polygamous marriage, she can claim her own establishment. It
therefore does not matter greatly from her point of view whether monogamy or
polygamy be the prevailing order of society.
The quasi religious objection to the mere
mention of polygamy to be met with in Europe today is owing to a preconception
with regard to marriage as a sacrament, a union in which a woman makes the
sacrifice of her identity. Monogamous marriage remains, as it has always been,
the ideal of Islam but it is recognized as an ideal only, which it really is. In
practice, strict monogamy can be the cause of much unhappiness and also of some
serious social evils, which I have already mentioned. The law of Islam aims for
a happy marriage, so allowances are made for known human tendencies, and divorce
is made quite easy where unhappiness can be shown to be the result of a
particular marriage. This facility of divorce, which was not in the original
Western code of monogamy, has now been introduced on grounds of reason and
humanity in most Western countries. Often involved with this in the west is
great deal of publicity and scandal as to be almost a social evil in itself.
This is certainly not the case with the Islamic method of divorce. I might add
that a happy marriage is not rare among Muslims like it is among the people of
the West.
Polygamy is not an institution of Islam. It is
an allowance made for ardent human nature. The Qur'an does not enjoin it, but
recommends it in certain circumstances as better than leaving women helpless and
without protectors. Permission is contained in the following verses, revealed at
a time when the men of the small Muslim community had been decimated by war, and
when there were many women captives, some with children clinging to them:
"Give unto the orphans their wealth.
Exchange not the valuable for the worthless (in your management thereof) nor
absorb their wealth in your own wealth. Verily that would be a great sin. And
if ye fear that ye will not deal fairly by the orphans, then marry of the
women (i.e., their mothers) who seem good to you, two or three or four; and if
ye fear that you cannot do justice (to so many) then one only or (of the
female captive) whom your right hand possess. That is better, that ye stray
not from the path of justice. And give unto the women (whom ye marry) free
gifts of their marriage portions; but if they, of their own accord, remit to
you a part thereof, then ye are welcome to absorb it (in your wealth)." [Qur'an
4:2,3]
This passage cannot by any stretch of the
imagination be made to fit in with the view so often ventilated by opponents of
Islam. Polygamy is little practised in the Muslim world today, but the
permission remains there to witness to the truth that marriage was made for men
and women, not men and women for marriage.
Islam holds a man absolutely responsible for
his treatment of every woman. Responsibility and decency are the pillars of
Islamic ethics, and the arch which they support admits to liberty - the utmost
liberty compatible with human happiness and welfare. The freedom of the West, in
this respect, seems to us Muslims to have passed the bounds of decency and this
brings us to another much disputed point - the separation of the sexes.
If it is true, as life experience suggests (and
the advocates of woman's rights in Europe and America are never tired of
declaring that women's interests are separate from those of men) that women are
really happier among themselves in daily life, and are capable of progress as a
sex rather than in close subservience to men, then the Islamic rule which makes
the woman the mistress in her sphere does not discord with human nature. While
every provision is made for the continuation of the human race, and while the
relation of a woman to her husband and near kinsfolk is just as tender and as
intimate as in the West, the social life of women is among themselves. There is
no 'mixed bathing,' no mixed dancing, no promiscuous flirtation, no publicity.
But according to the proper teachings of Islam, there ought to be no bounds to
woman's opportunities for self development and progress in her own sphere.
Therefore, there is nothing to prevent women from becoming doctors, lawyers,
judges, preachers and divines, but they should graduate in women's colleges and
practice on behalf of women.
Women may have their own great athletes,
lawyers, physicians, scientists, and theologians; and no true Muslim would
withhold from them the necessary means of education in accordance with the Holy
Prophet's own injunctions. But if this very hopeful precedent for human progress
is to be explored successfully, there must be no mere sycophantic aping of the
West, for the Western aspect of the question of feminine emancipation is quite
different from the aspect which it bears among Islamic peoples. Women of the
West have had to agitate for themselves in recent years for simple legal rights,
such as that of married women to own property, which has always been secured for
women in Islam. They have had to wage a bitter fight to bring to the
intelligence of Western men the fact that women's interests are not identical
with those of men (a fact for which the Sacred Law makes full allowance.) Women
in the West have had to agitate in order to obtain recognition of their legal
and civil existence, which was always recognized in Islam. They now have their
own separate clubs, which a Turkish lady visitor described as their 'haram' or 'Zenana'
quarters which Muslim women in the central Muslim countries have always had in
fact if not in name. Therefore, they started from a totally different point from
that which the Muslim women start. Their men secured the rights of women in
Islam, and men will champion and secure what further rights they may require
today in order to fulfil the spirit of the Shari'ah. In this emancipation, there
will be no strife between the sexes. Therefore there is really no analogy with
the case of women in the West.
An objection is occasionally raised about the
Islamic system on the grounds that the parents often choose a husband for the
girl, who ought to be allowed to choose for herself. That social custom is not
peculiar to Islam for it is actually the custom in many European countries as
well as all countries and among all peoples where, it would be agreed that, a
young girl who chose a husband of whom her parents disapproved would be courting
disaster. On the other hand, no Muslim parent would ask his daughter to remain
with a man whom she disliked. She would be taken home again. In Turkey, for
example, where the circle of a grown-up girl's male acquaintances had been
enlarged so as to include relations of a marriageable degree, the daughter of a
friend of mine informed her father that she wished to marry Fulan Bay. Her
father said: "Pek Iyi (all right!) but you clearly understand that if you
break through one old custom, you break through all old customs which depend on
it. If you marry Fulan Bay, of whom I do not approve as a husband for you
(remember I know something of men that you do not) you cannot come to me in the
case of a disagreement and divorce, for I shall not receive you as I should be
bound by law and custom to do, if an unhappy marriage had resulted from my
choice for you. Take what I can give you with my blessing, and go your
way." The girl gave in, deciding to be guided by her father's knowledge and
experience.
When Muslims think of feminine emancipation,
the Islamic ideal must always be kept in sight or they will go astray after
something which can be no guide to them. And at the same time we must remember -
I say it again - that the rules laid down by the Sacred Law itself, the law of
kindness, is greater than the rules laid down at any period, that woman's rights
increase with her responsibilities. The Law of Islam for women as for men, is
justice, the goal of Islam is universal human brotherhood, which does not
exclude, but must include, the goal of universal sisterhood as well. That goal
can never be attained while the position of women is what it is today in the
East or West.
Notes
For an introduction and appendix to this
lecture by Canadian writers Syed Mumtaz Ali and Rabia Mills, see http://muslim-canada.org/pickthall.htm
Fateha -- The Fateha
is the first Sura [chapter] of the Holy Qur'an and is recited several times in
all five of the daily obligatory prayers (ritual worship) of a Muslim.
Kalima -- The Kalima
is the Muslim Creed : "La illaha ill Allah; Muhammad-ar-Rasul-Allah"
There is no god but God; Muhammad is the Messenger of God.
Polygamy -- The
Western form of 'polygamy' (adultery) grants no rights to women whatsoever.
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