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Practical
Aspects of Polygamy
The benefits polygamy has for
women and the controls it places on men.
By Samuel Chapman
Benefits For Women
Automatic childcare in a sexist society gives women more effective choice to
have a career without devaluing the role of homemaker. Being able to marry men
who are already married means that women can marry men who have already proved
themselves, therefore minimising their risk.
Being able to marry the men who
attract most women means they don't have to settle just for what's left after
other women have the best pickings.
Having the possibility that a
husband can remarry without divorce extends practical security to a woman. She
needn't worry about losing her husband and income as she loses her looks,
because if her husband is attracted by a younger woman, he doesn't even have to
think about leaving his wife.
Polygamy removes the pressure on a
husband to commit adultery, and removes damaging deceit from a marriage.
Polygamy provides a method where a
woman can have a female friend for life as well as a husband.
Polygamy therefore provides more
people and a better chance of meeting diverse needs.
Polygamy provides a potential for
at least three adult incomes, reducing state dependence and the fear of
unemployment.
Controls Placed On Men
If a man wants to have another sexual partner in a polygamous system then he has
to meet his responsibilities - pay for any children produced from all his
relationships without priority being given to those from a 'legal' relationship.
Polygamy removes or reduces the seduction of innocent young women - If a man
promises to marry her, he cannot use his existing marriage as an excuse for not
fulfilling a promise.
Polygamy reduces the number of
women who are available. Currently, with more women than men, this 'cheapens'
women. With less women available their 'value' goes up. In other words, polygamy
makes men have to try harder and do better with women if they are to win them in
competition with other men.
Source: www.polygamy.com
The author, Samuel Chapman, lives
in England. You may contact him by e mail at: FamilyMan@Polygamy.com
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